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A Freshman's Tumultuous Path
to Wharton
Four years ago, Wharton
freshman Dario Kosarac had
no idea how his life would
evolve. Fifteen and scared for
his future, he was living in
his hometown of Sarajevo,
which had been virtually destroyed
by three years of war
between Croats, Serbs and
Bosnian Muslims.
“I was in high school and
faced being drafted into the
army, which I definitely didn’t
want to happen,” says
Kosarac, who lived at home
with his mother and older
sister, a teacher.
Kosarac and his friends
would seek out English-speaking
people in the main
squares of Sarajevo, hoping
that the more English they
knew, the better chance they
would have of getting out
of Bosnia.
And one day in the spring
of 1995, Kosarac and his
friends met some people
from England and the U.S.
who claimed they were relief
workers who might be able to
get Kosarac and his friends to
America as students. They
exchanged addresses and,
with that, raised Kosarac’s
hopes that he could leave his
war-ravaged home. “I wrote a
lot of letters that summer to
them, but I never heard back.
I went back to school without
much hope,” he says.
But one Wednesday he
returned to school – the date,
Oct. 25, 1995, is firmly
etched in his mind – and
there was a letter from one
of the people he met. It said
that if he could be in Zagreb,
the capital of neighboring
Croatia, by Friday, he could
come to America, be placed
with a family, and complete
high school there.
“This would be a difficult
thing even if you were living
in Philadelphia and going to
New York, to complete such
arrangements,” says Kosarac.
“But this was Bosnia. Crossing
borders was seemingly
impossible. I had no passport,
no Croatian visa.
“But when you are faced
with something like that, I
don’t know, you just forget
the odds and figure out a
way to do it,” says Kosarac.
Though he was able to
obtain a passport in a day,
Kosarac couldn’t get a visa to
enter Croatia. But even that
seemed a moot point, because
nearly no one could get
across the Sarajevo Airport to
the road to Croatia. The airport
had effectively been
closed, a no man’s land surrounded
by snipers, most
from the invading Serbian
army. Kosarac, a Catholic of
Croatian ancestry, may not
have been an official enemy
of that army, but he would
still have to prove to border
guards that he deserved to
cross disputed territory.
Fortunately, his priest
had a plan. He lent Kosarac
his collared vestment shirt so
he could pose as a seminary
student in a humanitarian
caravan of food and supplies
crossing the airport and into
the safer territory by Mount
Igman on the other side.
Miraculously, the plan
worked, but he was still
many miles away from
Zagreb on a war-torn road,
with little money and no
Croatian visa. The driver
of the truck he was on noticed
that a bus ahead of
them was going direct to
Zagreb. Kosarac flagged it
down and convinced the bus
driver to let him on. He did
more convincing of border
guards and soldiers at checkpoints
along the way and
arrived in Zagreb on Friday
morning.
Even that wasn’t enough.
He would still need to get a
visa to travel to America by
that afternoon or would lose
his chance to be placed with
a family. After hours of talking,
negotiating, and faxing
documents, Kosarac was
finally given the go ahead.
He slept for a couple of
hours, then was on a plane to
Germany. By Sunday, he was
in Virginia Beach, Virginia –
and two military pilots had
volunteered to be his host
family. “By Wednesday, I was
attending my first day in an
American high school. From
Wednesday with virtually no
hope to the next Wednesday
with a future – what a
week,” he says.
Four years later, Kosarac
is ready to face a different
kind of future in Bosnia.
“They need a good economic
structure and hopefully I
can influence that,” he says.
“But I’m not on a mission
to save Bosnia at all costs.
I hope I can at least make
things good for my family.”
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